FFF Triads

topic posted Thu, July 27, 2006 - 12:02 PM by  MJ
So I've recently begun my first poly relationship with my girlfriend of 5 years. I've been immersing myself in as much poly info as I can find because this is so new to us all. The one thing I haven't found are other women who have been in FFF triads to learn from. The relationship is very heathy, thus-far...I just like being able to relate to other women and their experiences.

Are there any in this tribe...or do you know of any?

MJ
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  • Re: FFF Triads

    Fri, July 28, 2006 - 8:10 AM
    If you haven't tried the polyamory community on livejournal, there are a handful of women there in FFF situations, though I don't know how many of them are in traids specifically.
  • Re: FFF Triads

    Fri, July 28, 2006 - 12:11 PM
    I am. But right now I don't know where to start telling about it. Hm. Maybe I need to think about it or you could asj some questions?

    Mimi
  • Re: FFF Triads

    Fri, July 28, 2006 - 3:58 PM
    are you looking to be in V type triad or a complete triad? I've been in many V's before but I haven't found a perfect triangle although we do have a casual quad relationship.

    there is a book called lesbian polyfidelity as well as the ethical slut talks a bit about triads.

    The general poly tribe is a bit too hetero for me.

    did you have any specific questions?
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    Re: FFF Triads

    Sat, July 29, 2006 - 11:39 PM
    *Peppermint*
    Thank you for the referral to livejournal. I have heard a lot about that site and have never really visited. I will check it out :)


    *Mimi*
    Thank you for your reply! How long have you been with your partners? Are you exclusive? What have your biggest challenges been? Look forward to getting to know you.


    *Turtle*
    Thus far, our relationship has developed into a complete triad. I will look for both of those books, thank you. I have heard a lot about The Ethical Slut. I agree about the general poly tribe, however, I still learn a lot from them.
    Question: Having been in several V's, what appeals to you about a triad and what concerns you about making that transition?

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